For a handful of seconds, as we stepped in the swinger’s club, all eyes were on us. Everyone appeared to be in their 40s and up, and even the youngest couples were in their 30s. So how did we, a 21-year-old-couple, end up being the center of attention in a swinger’s club?

We were 18 and together for over five years and had spoken about a threesome a few times before. But it was something we agreed would only happen “someday”. We were both turned on by the idea of having someone else in bed, but neither one of us really expected it to really come true. We were happy with our own company and our occasional daydreams of being with another.